In Body Safe we learnt how to protect ourselves from physical and sexual harm. We also discovered consent and how we can spot signals discerning whether or not she wants the D. It was good that the people teaching us always included us in the learning and made everyone feel safe. It was difficult for me to understand the concept of consent, but thanks to out teachers i finally know all there is to it.
Zoning out is basically to distract you and only you away from the topic presented if felt uncomfortable
A free arrangement is a decision and time to have an agreement on sexual topics between each other.
The 4 steps to consent are
1. Age limit (16)
2. No consent
3. They cant be under any drug or alcohol influence
A way to see if he/she accepts your request to do it, is the way they speak, body movement, and their facials. If he/she answers enthusiastically then its okay.